How To Tell If You Have Forgiven Someone?
You have forgiven someone if you don't feel like you need revenge, or your need to handle the situation yourself is gone. When I heard Tony Evans express this, I knew this was true from my own experiences, because this is how I use to evaluate if I have forgiven or gotten over an ex-boyfriend. I would gauge if I wanted them to feel the pain that I felt. If I didn't want them to hurt the way they made me hurt, I felt like I knew I had forgiven them. I know what some of you may be asking in your mind... Did you get revenge on the ex-boyfriends who hurt you? The answer is, NO! Now, I ...