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How Do You Resist Temptation So You Can Finally Stop Doing What Is Wrong?

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You resist temptation by walking in your true identity. You have to know that God loves you, and who you are in Christ. Know and understand that you are a child of God and this understanding will give you a desire to do the right thing and you will be empowered to act according to who you truly are and always meant to be. Try these 5 tips (refer to Ephesians 6: 10-20) to get to know who you are so you can get the desire to do what is right. 1.  Have a relationship with the Lord      a. Be a born-again believer in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.  -  Believe that Jesus Christ is your Lord and Savior.      b. Change your mindset - Admit that you have done wrong and ask for forgiveness and turn away from your sins and turn towards God and see things the way He does by seeking Him by reading the Bible.       c. Spend time with God - You get to know God by spending time with Him. You do this by reading your Bible and supp...

How to Be Ok with Getting Older?

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One of the reasons you can be ok with getting older is by knowing your Spirit does not age  (2 Corinthians 4:16). Isn't it crazy how we get excited about getting older when we were kids and then when we become adults some of us start to dread getting older.  As a child we look forward to more responsibilities, privileges, and rights, or we just like the way it sounds and looks, for instance, turning 10 years old means getting into the two digits. At 12 means you are a preteen. At 13 you are officially a teenager. At 15 you can get your driver's permit. At 16 you are old enough to get your driver's license. At 18 you are now considered by law an adult and for most it is time to graduate and maybe go off to college, and you can exercise your right to vote. At 21 years old you are legally allowed to drink alcohol. But around 25 to 30 years old stuff starts getting real, and the rights and responsibilities of being an adult, we learn it is not what we thought it would be.  Fo...

The Cost of Fear: Why I Believe Kamala Harris Lost the Election to Donald Trump

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This election was partially lost because Joe Biden was pushed out the race due to fear. It might not have been the reason for all the voters, but whether voters and those who decided to sit this election out were aware of it or not, President Joe Biden being pushed out was a contributing factor, because some people were hurt by it, felt like he was disrespected, and they felt like their pick for president was taken from them.   Some of the leaders of the Democratic Party pushed Biden out by expressing their concerns about his age and the lackluster performance at the debate, some donors threatened to withhold money to Joe Biden's campaign, and some of the media continually talked about Joe Biden's age before and after the debate and the debate performance.  Did you see Joe Biden days after the election when he gave a speech? Click here if you haven't and want to see it. As you can see nothing was wrong with him. It was said that Biden performed the way he did during the ...

How Can a Christian Vote for a Democrat?

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                                                                                                                                                                                                 We don't like labels because we can't be contained nor agree with everything they do or say but if we have to choose this is why we choose democrat. I can't speak for everyone so I will give my perspective.  God wants us to...

How To Tell If You Have Forgiven Someone?

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                                                                                                      You have forgiven someone if you don't feel like you need revenge, or your need to handle the situation yourself is gone. When I heard Tony Evans express this, I knew this was true from my own experiences, because this is how I used to evaluate if I have forgiven or gotten over an ex-boyfriend. I would gauge if I wanted them to feel the pain that I felt. If I didn't want them to hurt the way they made me hurt, I felt like I knew I had forgiven them.  I know what some of you may be asking in your mind... Did you get revenge on the ex-boyfriends who hurt you? The answer is, NO! Now, I...

The Divine Matchmaker: Can God Choose a Spouse for Us?

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  Y es, God can choose a spouse for you. There are eight examples in the Bible that I was reading about on how God brought couples together that include: Adam and Eve (see Genesis 2:4-25), Isaac and Rebekah (see Genesis 24), Jacob and Rachel (see Genesis 29:1-30),  Moses and Zipporah (see Exodus 2:11-25),  Samson's marriage to the Philistine woman (see Judges 14),  Ruth and Boaz (see the book of Ruth),  Esther and King Xerxes (see Esther 2:1-18), and Hosea and Gomer (see Hosea 1:1-11).  I was looking at these stories to get some insight about God choosing a mate for us and I believe God showed me how everyone's stories were different but there were some similarities that we can learn from.  For example, if we look in the Bible under Genesis 2:18, God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone, I will make a helper suitable for him." So, He prepared Eve and brought her to Adam as a helpmate .  Other similar examples of God bringing a spouse to...

How to Choose a Friend?

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                                                                                                      You should choose friends by asking God to choose your friends for you. The Bible tells us not to be joined together with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14-17); although we need to love and do right by all people, we need to be careful with who we are friends with. In order to determine if someone is a decent person, pay attention to their fruit, or their character. Whatever is stored up in their heart will show itself outwardly. (Luke 6:43-45). If a potential friend comes into your life, evaluate the person's character and spirit with the following fruits of the spirit found in Galatians ...